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    • Child Loss: The Heartbreak and the Hope
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  • Child Loss,  Explaining Child Loss,  How to Validate Your Child's Life after Death,  What to Say to a Grieving Parent

    “Why Can’t People Understand My Need to Grieve?”

    December 16, 2016 /

    My son died.  He died suddenly, without warning.  On that warm day in May, the lives of so many people changed when my son’s life on this earth ended.  He was the strong one in the family.  He was the oldest brother and the one that the others looked up to always.  He’s gone and our hearts are broken and life will never be the same again! It is now going on two years since Mike died.  Life has gone on for most everyone except his immediate family.  For us, the pain is real.  The pain is cruel.  The longing for Mike overshadows every day in a million different ways.…

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    Clara Hinton
  • Child Loss,  Honoring Your Child's Birthday,  How to Validate Your Child's Life after Death,  Sibling Loss,  Symptoms of grief

    “A Birthday, An Old Hat, and Unexpected Tears”

    June 27, 2016 /

    Tonight was one of those nights.  I went to Monday night yoga as usual, not really feeling any different than I had all day.  It was Monday, and time to get back into my work routine.  I ran into class a few minutes late, placed my yoga mat down on the floor and began to do the relaxation breathing.  I closed my eyes and began visualizing a beautiful beach scene when suddenly out of nowhere………I could feel myself beginning to shake from the inside and then it happened. Hot tears began streaming down my face. 

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    Clara Hinton
  • Child Loss,  How to Validate Your Child's Life after Death,  One Year Anniversary After Child Loss

    I Remember Every Detail That Made My Child Uniquely Mine

    April 21, 2016 /

    When each of my children were born I studied them for a long, long time.  I ran my fingers across the tip of their noses.  I grasped their tiny hands into mine and looked in awe.  I slid my fingers ever so gently across their heads leaning down and smelling that newborn baby smell.  I loved how each of their tiny feet fit into the palm of my hand.  These are just some of the things I’ll never forget.  A love as deep as a parent’s love wants to soak up everything about our child.  We even study the pores of our child’s skin! As our children grow older, we continue…

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    Clara Hinton
  • Child Loss,  Differences with Male/Female Grief,  Explaining Child Loss,  Healing after child loss,  How to Validate Your Child's Life after Death,  Self-Care after child loss,  Sibling Loss

    Child Loss Causes So Much Miscommunication in a Family

    April 9, 2016 /

    When child loss occurs, there is often chaos within the family unit.  Nobody knows what to do or say.  Everybody knows that each person is suffering.  But, no words are spoken.  Why?  How do you even begin to communicate within a family when everybody is in shock and grief?  This radical miscommunication often leads to the breakdown of a family and that’s just what we want to guard against. “As we know, the death of a child doesn’t just affect the heart of a mother.” — This is a direct quote from the book Child Loss; The Heartbreak and the Hope.

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    Clara Hinton
  • Child Loss,  Healing after child loss,  How to Validate Your Child's Life after Death

    Why Does It Hurt So Much to See Life Go On After Child Loss?

    March 28, 2016 /

    If you’re like me, one of the most difficult things for me to hear is how quickly life has gone on for others following the loss of my son. I want to know others are feeling some of my loss. I need to know that others still remember my son.  I want so desperately to know that others still think of him. And, yet the fact is that life has gone on very quickly for most.  

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    Clara Hinton
  • Child Loss,  Getting through Easter Wtihout Your Child,  How to Validate Your Child's Life after Death

    Easter: Another Holiday Without My Child

    March 24, 2016 /

    Any way you look at child loss it ends up being the same. It hurts like nothing else in the entire world. We get to the point of where we think we just cannot go on any longer because we miss our child so bad. Others try to help us. They try to do everything in their power to take away our pain, but really there’s nothing that anyone else can do to “fix” this hurt. Child loss is the  “unfixable” loss.    

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    Clara Hinton
  • Child Loss,  How to Validate Your Child's Life after Death

    Why It’s Important to Talk About Your Children Who Are No Longer Here

    October 15, 2015 /

    Have you ever noticed how much people clam up and will not mention a child’s name when child loss has taken place?  To bereaved parents, this is one of the biggest hurts of all.  What we need — what we’re wanting so desperately — is to know that our child has not been forgotten!  Hearing our child’s name spoken is the sweetest name we can ever hear!  

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    Clara Hinton

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